Is asking overly personal judgmental questions better than silently judging?

Sex is over-rated
When I was younger I couldn’t understand why sex was used to sell everything, even tooth paste! I thought it would have been much cooler to have a vampire selling it.
When I finally had sex with a man I thought everyone had been lying to me. It really wasn’t as great as I was lead to believe. I could have easily done without for the rest of my life.
When I realized I was gay and had sex with a woman I understood what everyone was raving about. It is pretty cool when it is with someone you care about and actually want to touch. Even so, I still think it’s over-rated. I wouldn’t sell my soul for it. I wouldn’t take it from someone who didn’t want to give it. I wouldn’t blow off my friends and family for a chance to get it. I wouldn’t spend all my time and energy planning for the next lay. Why do people do that?